A true Irishman tribute

 We all attended a tribute to Dad at the Irish Club in New Haven yesterday morning.  They were honoring Dad for the 20 years of writing the newsletter and the many books Dad has written in honor of the Irish.  Throughout the whole breakfast and honoring, I couldn't help but think of how proud I was to be Dad's daughter but also what a humble man my father is.  He has given so much in his life (and not an easy life at that) without asking too much in return.  He suffers physically more than most yet doesn't complain.  He lives alone when most people his age share their lives with others. 

One of the best parts of all was his ability to see and say that all the work he has done for the Irish has brought more joy to his life than work.  The other best part was his acknowledging Tracey and I, but more than that, his grandchildren who are, as he said, his true legacy to this life, beyond anything he has done in writing.  He introduced each one of them with pride and joy.  I sat there watching and thinking no matter what is going on in my life, I had both ends - my Dad and my 4 children, 3 nephew/nieces - making me feel as though anything is possible and life is just plain good. Sometimes being in the middle of the two generations feels full of responsibility, but yesterday, it just felt secure and comfortable. 

Mom and Dad - you done good!!!!

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